If you can gain it together, you can lose it together!
Popular TV shows like “The Biggest Loser” feature emotional accounts from couples who share their hopes and dreams for each other, and ultimately for themselves. Given their dramatic weight loss, there may be a reason that the contestants who are part of a couple and work as a team are more likely to succeed. According to several recent studies, there is evidence that people who try to lose weight with their partners get better results than those who attempt it on their own.
Here are four reasons why people lose more weight as a couple than as individuals:
Accountability. There is always someone there to push you and to provide encouragement when you’re exercising or trying to stick to a healthy diet. As a team, couples provide each other with words of support, while also enforcing the rules they’ve created. It’s harder to hide junk food in the house with your partner on the lookout for cheating!
Familiarity. Partners have seen each other at their worst and at their best. They don’t have to act or put up a front, because they should already feel comfortable with each other. Unfortunately, this level of comfort may be what causes a couple to gain weight together in the first place. Busy lifestyles and unhealthy habits can pack on the pounds, as well. On the other hand, while your partner should love you for who you are on the inside, it never hurts to spark the flames with a new, toned body.
Commitment. Couples are invested in each other. Individuals care deeply about the health and well-being of their partners, especially if they have children together. When interviewed, couples with kids often talk about the importance of seeing their sons or daughters graduate from school or get married. Their strong family ties can give them that extra motivation to succeed.
Partnership. They can help each other create effective diets and workout routines based on their strengths and preferences, since they truly want their partners to succeed. You’ll have a consistent spotter when lifting weights and a cheerleader to keep those spirits up. This winning combination of physical and emotional support can make a huge difference in your weight loss results.
Tips for Couples Trying to Lose Weight Together
Health experts point out that men and women often have varied weight loss results, due to differences in their body types and metabolism rates. As long as you recognize and deal with these variations up front, however, there will tend to be more cooperation than competition between you and your partner. In any case, a little bit of friendly competition wouldn’t hurt, and you shouldn’t feel entirely responsible for your partner, either. It might help to remember that, at the end of the day, each of you is solely accountable for your own choices.
Clearly, appearing on “The Biggest Loser” is not possible for everyone. It might sound simple, but, in general, the healthiest option for most people is to eat right and exercise more. Couples should consult their doctors for specific advice on creating their personal weight loss plans.